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If You Cannot Do Anything About It Then "LET IT GO",Don't Be A Prisoner To Things You Can't Change.









If you can't do anything about it, then let it go.
Don't be a prisoner to the things you can't change.
Let go of the things that are out of your control.

Worrying about them isn't going to impact them, but rather working towards them with hope and good intentions in mind may help to effect what you desire to change.

Don't be a prisoner to your mental health.
You may not be able to change the fact that you struggle with mental illness, but while pain is inevitable, suffering is a choice, and choosing to cling to your illness and allow it to define you is setting yourself to suffer,
LET IT GO !

And NO, it's not easy to let go of the identity your mental health has given you, yet the more you fight it and let it define you, the louder and more stubborn it will get, and choosing and deciding to have a life worth living, even while you still may be struggling, is a sign of true and unmeasurable strength.

You may not be able to do anything about the fact that you struggle, but you can choose to not let your struggle define you, even if they are out of control; accept what you cannot change. don't allow what you cannot change to define you, and don't ever believe that worrying about something enough will impact it- You must be willing to define yourself and your future, rather than letting your worries define you,
So, LET IT GO !
What you can't control rather focus on the things you can control, such as your attitude, your presence, your moral, your beliefs, your optimism, - Everything you can control, work to make a positive impact in those areas, and don't allow your mental health to define you, but rather allow your strengths in the things you can control for the better, let go of the things out of your control, and allow you to define yourself above all else through the things you can control and the person you want to be for yourself.

One day at a time !

Comments

Unknown said…
This is so insightful and creative.
February 14, 2017 at 12:06 PM
AKG said…
As its not always easy to let it go... How much time one should take before letting it go? Or how soon should one decide that it's right time to let it go?
March 22, 2017 at 4:54 AM
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